I’m sitting outside at a lovely eatery, enjoying the beautiful summer morning, eagerly anticipating the breakfast that I have ordered, when I look over at a nearby bush and notice a representation of nature that is sooo cool!
An abandoned skin of a cicada remains, still clinging to the branch. I am captured by the visual, get up from the table, and carefully break off the branch. My mind begins whirling with the whole idea of the necessity of the shedding process within nature. Although humans shed skin continually (we shed 1.5 million skin cells every hour with a new skin surface every 28 days or so) we don’t go through the physical process of emerging from our entire “structural” skin. Now I’m not advocating that it would be a cool process as a human to live underground as the cicadas do, at depths as far as 8 ½ ft, feeding on root juice. I wouldn’t call that “bon a petit” and it is too close of an image to the nightmare of being buried alive!! Neither would I adopt their workout of digging out an exit tunnel to the surface just to emerge as a tasty dinner to some bird! Yet, I have to admit that there have been times that I have wished to either climb out of my skin, shed pounds of my skin, or at least be able to reduce it to the point of having the ability to fold it up and neatly tuck it into my jeans!
You ask, “How does this relate to leadership”? Well, leadership at its core is a transformational endeavor. Leaders don’t just manage what is, they attempt to produce what should be. Leaders don’t just guard and steward what they are given, but genuinely create amazing results of lasting “what’s best” impact on the lives of people they lead. Leaders don’t just crawl out from somewhere and emerge, complete in leadership excellence. A molt, a skin shedding process, a spiritual journey of continual learning and developing is a necessary ongoing aspect of truth within faithful leadership.
Now shedding can be painless, or it can have its challenges. Environmental conditions, physical health, and psychological stress are all possible contributors to behavioral changes that produce cranky, hissy, or snappy reactions to being touched. And I’m not just referring to snakes and reptiles here!! Yet the reality is that most human beings naturally seek safety and comfort and try to avoid risk and challenge as much as they can. However, challenge is often the way to real accomplishment and a deep sense of personal fulfillment. The easy way is very seldom successful. Successful leadership led from the heart confronts conflict between integrity and inertia. Integrity is about doing what’s right; inertia is about doing what’s easy. It takes a lot of energy and conviction to ask the right questions, uphold high standards, and show how much you care about those you lead.
There is an overall picture here that constructs a pathway of reflection, a pathway of truth-seeking, a pathway of integrity, and a pathway of what leaders should exemplify as they shed and emerge from the up and out process. We are never going to accomplish faithful leadership if we can’t embrace the concept of “shedding” and the nature of continual growth.
You know…we really do need to shed some myths of leadership; especially when it comes to being more concerned with creating the right impression than with producing the right reality. Why do we expend energy protecting the status quo and guarding our own reputations when what we really need is to be aware that although status and role can coincide, they never trump the relational task of a faithful leader! We need to shed some of the old misconceptions that leadership can’t be developed. Leadership is a relational, interpersonal role…it’s a function that any one of us can perform!
Although the whole process of emergence may be painful, it may be uncomfortable, it may even eliminate things that we think of as “good”, we have to commit to shedding some of our old skin, to allow the new skin to feel the sun, to encourage and motivate others to “dig through the dirt”, and to join us on the up and out journey toward faithful leadership.
A pumice stone followed by a mud bath may be wonderful physical attempts to slough off some skin today as I muse about what to do with this “shedding process”. However, the real challenge is to put thought to what may need to be sloughed off within my life as I lead; what does it look like, what are the realities of where it will take me, and how will I sustain the emergence of what’s new as life allows other circumstances to try and ‘best me’. And the final consideration…what will my leadership look like… sacrifice and struggle to do what’s right or rationalization of consciousness when choosing the easy way out? What kind of leader do you want to emulate…callused, dry and hardened…or fresh, energized and renewed? As always, it’s a choice we each make.
Oh…if only life was one big spa.